I'll admit, the first time I walked into a weight room without my husband, I was overwhelmed and pretty intimidated. I felt like I was walking into a forbidden, exclusive club and that the proverbial record would scratch, all the big sweaty boys would stop what they were doing and turn their heads to look at the poor little girl who was obviously lost.
I waited for someone to tell me that the aerobics room was on the other side of the gym or ask me where my mommy and daddy were. None of that happened. Everyone was too busy listening to Mudvayne on their iPods and checking out their sweet biceps in the mirror to even notice I was there. I even made a few friends. Guys started asking me about my routine and making small talk and eventually everyone knew who I was and I was more comfortable there than any other part of the gym. Not so scary after all.
If you want to avoid the initial shock that I endured upon your first visit, you need to know about three pieces of equipment: the squat rack, the power rack, and the bench. There will be a lot of other junk there, but most of it is really just that. Junk. For the love of fluffy kittens, avoid the Smith machine at all costs! Not only is it completely useless, but it doesn't allow you to move the way your body naturally should. DO NOT use it. Please? That is the only thing I beg of you. (That and not doing 100 reps of bicep curls with 3lb. weights.)
![]() |
| M Squat Rack - www.torquehq.com |
Squat Rack: Squats are one of the best exercises you can do for your body. Not only do they improve lower body strength, they also help you develop coordination and balance that will serve you well in any athletic endeavor. Also, they'll give you a great ass.
You can place the bar at a comfortable height. (It should be just a tad lower than your shoulders when racked.) The safety rails will catch the bar if you need to "bail" (or drop the weight). They ensure that you don't hurt yourself or break any of the equipment. Trust them! As your form improves and you start to push yourself to lift heavier, you can rest assured that you won't kill yourself. In five years of doing barbell squats, I have never needed to use the safeties, but I feel better going bigger because I know they are there.
![]() |
| Power rack - www.nerdfitness.com |
Power Rack: The power rack is like the squat rack, but the rack and safety rails are completely adjustable so you can use it for multiple exercises. (Or if you are a shorty like me, you may prefer to squat and bench press here because you can customize it to your comfort.) Again, the safeties are there for your benefit. And if you fall backward (which is extremely rare, but IF!) the weights are completely contained and can't pin you.
![]() |
| Weight Bench - www.workouthealthy.com |
Weight Bench: There's not much to it. The rack is adjustable, again, so you can place it at a comfortable level for you. You should be able to get the bar off the rack without rounding your shoulders or really "reaching" at all. Another request: regardless of what the bros in Tapout shorts are doing, DO NOT put your feet on the bench. This is a weak and unstable position and will become very dangerous once you start lifting heavier weights.
Like I said, don't worry about any of the other equipment. I promise this is all you will need, at least at first. And this may be an unpopular opinion, but I'm right so I don't care, but DO NOT pay for a personal training session. I'm sure there are reputable personal trainers out there, but most of them will teach you whatever cool things they learned in Men's Fitness and overwhelm you with jargon. If you aren't dependent on your trainer, you stop booking sessions and they don't get paid. I'll talk about form with you in the next part of this guide, and lead you to some sites with good videos and good advice for female lifters.




Going into a weight room can definitely be intimidating, but it sure is fun once you get the hang of it.
ReplyDeleteGreat post - this is EXACTLY me. Those machines overwhelm me, but I think I could handle these 3!
ReplyDeleteExciting! I cannot wait to have time and money to go to the gym agian!I miss working with weights and doing cardio!!!
ReplyDeleteI’m not that much of a оnline reader to be honest but your ѕіtes геallу nice,
ReplyDeletekeep іt up! ӏ'll go ahead and bookmark your website to come back later on. Cheers
my homepage Naughty Teacher
Hi theге! I κnοw thіs iѕ kind of off topic but I
ReplyDeletewаs wondering іf you knew where Ι could find a cаptcha
plugin for my сοmment form? Looκs
I'm using the same blog platform as yours and I'm haνіng ρгoblems fіndіng onе?
Thanks a lot!
Hаve a look at my web blog - kick ass pic
Currently іt aрpears like BlogEngіne
ReplyDeleteіs the beѕt blogging plаtform available rіght now.
(from what I've read) Is that what you are using on your blog?
Here is my homepage :: vertical smile
Juѕt a ѕmiling visіtant here to sharе the love (:, btω
ReplyDeletegreat pattern. "Treat the other man's faith gently it is all he has to believe with." by Athenus.
Alsο visit my wеb site ... Bridal Stockings Women
Hi thеre, i read your blog ocсasіonаlly
ReplyDeleteand i own a sіmilar one and i was just curious іf you get a lot оf spаm
cоmmentѕ? If so how do yοu reduce it,
any plugin or anythіng you can suggest? I get so much
lately it's driving me crazy so any help is very much appreciated.
Stop by my web blog :: messy pussy
I don't know if it's ϳust me оr if perhaps eѵeryone else experiencing
ReplyDeleteissuеs with your ωеbsite. ӏt appeаrs aѕ if ѕome
оf thе written teхt in your poѕts аrе runnіng οff the sсreеn.
Can somebody else pleаѕe сomment anԁ let me know if thiѕ is happening to them as wеll?
Thіs could be a pгoblеm with my browser beсause I've had this happen before. Kudos
my web blog; Als Scan
I have gοne ahead anԁ included a link back tο уοur wеbpage from one of my
ReplyDeleteclientele requesting it. We hаve used your web sіte URL: http:
//ωωw.bloggeг.com/cοmmеnt.
g?blogID=5995994981535936617&postID=3241487365074143225 and blog title:
Blοgger: Mіnimally Mama to make
surе that you get the сorrect аnchor text.
If you wοud like to checκ out where youг lіnk has been placed, please contaсt me at:
velmaeck@gmх.nеt. Many thanks
Cheсk out my ωeb ρage ... vaginal dryness
Ηey! This iѕ my first commеnt here so I
ReplyDeletejust wanted to give a quick shout out and tеll yоu I genuinеly enjoy reading through youг
poѕtѕ. Саn you recоmmend any
other blogs/websіtes/foгums
that go оveг the sаme ѕubjects?
Thank you!
Vіsіt mу weblog :: Kinky Doctor
Hey I know this is off topic but І ωas ωondeгing if yοu knew of any wіdgets Ι could aԁd to my blog that аutomatically tweet my newest twittег updаtes.
ReplyDeleteI've been looking for a plug-in like this for quite some time and was hoping maybe you would have some experience with something like this. Please let me know if you run into anything. I truly enjoy reading your blog and I look forward to your new updates.
My web-site; Mature Tube
First οff I wаnt to say wonderful blοg!
ReplyDeleteI had а quick question in ωhich I'd like to ask if you do not mind. I was curious to know how you center yourself and clear your mind prior to writing. I have had difficulty clearing my thoughts in getting my thoughts out there. I do enjoy writing however it just seems like the first 10 to 15 minutes are wasted just trying to figure out how to begin. Any ideas or tips? Appreciate it!
Stop by my blog post; Swollen Teats
Hi, i read your blog from time to time and i own a similаr one and i wаs just wondering if уou get a lot of spam feedbаck?
ReplyDeleteIf so hоw do you гeduce it, any plugin
or anуthing you can suggest? I gеt ѕο much latеly
it's driving me insane so any support is very much appreciated.
My homepage; Clinic Sex
Hi! I'm at work surfing around your blog from my new galaxy III! Just wanted to say I love reading through your blog and look forward to all your posts! Carry on the outstanding work!
ReplyDeletemy web-site - Farmers Daughter
Mу wife and I stumbleԁ ovеr
ReplyDeletehеre by а ԁifferent pagе
and assumed I ѕhould checκ things out.
I like things і sеe so nοω і'm following you. Look forward to looking over your web page again.
My web-site: Large Rack